Thanks, mALX. I know you understand me and it helps


I have taken some more pictures now but it´s hard to get them how I want since the camera is crap compared to the human eye. I might show some here later, if only for my own sake.

So I just came out to my mum which went well...

I knew she'd be supportive and all but I'm really happy with how well she took it and how understanding she was..

Sounds like you prefer your own locker room, Vital. I´m glad I don´t but as always, to each his own...



But how´s your driving coming along? What´s your running-over tally thus far?

Well... No one's dead yet so I must be doing something right.... right?

Nah, I've actually only done a little bit. My mum works pretty long hours and I'm also busy with school and whatnot so I don't get too many opportunities to drive. Usually just go around quiet suburb streets which is usually pretty easy, but I did nearly hit a kid from my year at school once. which would've been....

Good, I'm glad too, for your sake. I know how miserable people are when they deny who they are in order to fit in with what society thinks they should be. I've a little taste of that as a deaf person in a hearing world - I get treated as a dumb, arrogant b**ch until I open my mouth and initiate a conversation, then it's enlightenment time. Sometimes. Every once in a while I get someone who asks to speak to someone else. I've learned to let that slide and give that person someone else if that's possible, and remove myself from the situation. The problem lies with the other person, not with me.

But life is so much easier when you're honest with yourself AND people accept you for what you are as well as who you are.

Thanks, HER.

Empathy is sorely lacking in so many parts of society, whereas ignorance is widespread. Many of the people around me, even some of my friends, make homophobic comments without realising how much that hurts me (and others). If they knew about my sexuality I am certain most of them wouldn't continue to make these comments, but society has taught people to make certain assumptions about everyone and often people act without thinking...

Congrats, Vital. It is a hard step to take, but worth it for your future. Really glad it worked out well for you!

Hey, y'all!

Just thought I'd drop by and hang out for a bit. I figured that it's been a while, might as well update.

We moved in with my husband's in-laws and it's awful. But we are grateful to not be starving and to not have to pay rent.

I switched jobs and lost my new job due to having a anxiety attack at work.

Snuggles was evaluated for Autism and has a full evaluation on May 7th. Since both his father and I are on the ASD spectrum, we knew it was coming.

I run my own website, not for just ES but for all sorts of fandoms. It sucks because everyone on it randomly left, but whatever. I'm branching out.

I dyed my hair purple. It looks pink, but it's the shade Snuggles likes and asked for, so I did it.

I tried building up my skills to become a freelance writer. I took on a ghostwriting job as an erotica writer but it just depressed me because the woman I was ghostwriting for was a terrible writer. Just awful. And it was for five bucks so it wasn't even worth the depression. So I quit ghostwriting for a bit and am now working on building my skillset in areas I lack in.

I also changed my phone number, which, for me, is a big deal because I do not like change.

My mother divorced her alcoholic and abusive husband.

I also have real-life friends now. That I can get up and go see. Due to my crippling anxiety, I don't see them much.

Anyways, hey!

EDIT: The PMs are censored and I don't like that, so if you'd like to talk to me, email me.

This post has been edited by Elisabeth Hollow: Apr 21 2015, 01:58 AM

You have been missed

This can't be good.

Turns out someone thought that I was talking about them behind their back and that they think that was why old friends stopped talking for quite some time apparently.

Not a lick of it is true, as you know....but it is interesting to see the truths that come about in times of....wheels turning.

Blame. It's a hell of a drug.

Now that true colors have finally bled, I sleep much better at night.

Okay, second to last post.

Ta.

Liz, good to see you back! Sorry to hear about some of the not so good stuff that has befallen you and your family, but glad to hear that you’re getting by. Also good to know that you’re still pursing your writing. Purple hair is nice, but more importantly, Snuggles likes it!

Always nice to see ya here, Liz

Hey Liz, been a while.

Congrats, Vital. I’m glad it went well with your mom. Also glad you missed that kid from school (with your car)!

Welcome back, Liz!

Thanks for the welcome. I probably won't be chatting much, just updating the fic once in a while.

It's actually been a year ago since I left. I was looking over some old messages on the original reason why I left and wow. Nearly to the day.

I think it´s nice to even see the odd post from you, Liz


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This day has not even reached midday but things have happened, good things!

We might get an old garage we will use as a workshop in which to store chainsaws, the ATV etc instead of buying a new one for much, much more money. We might also get a smaller shed for shovels and such things. Plus, my parents might get a new place to live, it´s a house but it´s rental and it´s not expensive for what they get.

All this from the same guy!

This post has been edited by mirocu: Apr 22 2015, 10:49 AM

That’s fantastic news, mirocu!

All I need now is a well-payed job with low demands on me or a really good lottery ticket

( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) *Sniff* You are missed.

Sounds great, Mirocu!







I thought Taylor Swift would be supporting you with her income!


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