QUOTE(SubRosa @ Dec 17 2012, 07:49 PM)

I know, its like the guards constantly saying "Hands to yourself, sneak thief!"
This depends. If it's a character who does a lot of thieving, I don't mind, but it gets on my nerves if the char. only has accidentally grabbed an item here and there, and now they're a "sneak thief".
That's actually one of the only times I reload a game: if I try to speak to somebody, but don't realize my character is about to activate (grab) something. I would never be so clumsy if I'm talking to somebody IRL, so I allow a reload if this happens in-game.
Ultimately it's my fault, though, I often stay in 3rd person when talking to NPCs, when I should switch to 1st.