QUOTE(Lady Saga @ Jan 5 2013, 08:14 PM)

Now that I've been learning more about the Nine and Daedric Lords (through Lord Haaf-Mersey's eyes) I am having trouble understanding why Azura is not one of the Nine, and Arkay (burials and death) is not a Daedric Lord.

Hey, Saga. Short(ish) answer: Arkay is one of the Nine for the simple reason that the Daedra would never have stooped to create him. Imagine the compassion needed to bring Arkay into existence. The Daedra are many things, but compassionate is not one of them. Arkay is unique amongst the Nine because he didn’t exist before the creation of mortals (Nobody died before mortals came around). The lore makes him the ‘son’ of Akatosh, which makes sense when you consider how much time is wrapped into the cycle of life and death. But to me Arkay is a bit of a cop out, a way for the Aedra to reclaim those pieces of themselves lost in the creation of the world. As such Arkay seems more like an accommodation put forth by Mara or Stendarr to have mercy on the poor souls condemned to the Mundas.
But that’s just an opinion.
On topic: It’s definitely Mephala for me. As a writer I feel that the webspinner and I are exactly the same.