I use a mod that let's Buffy lie down wherever she wants. Once she's lying down, she can chose to sleep or not. This is wonderful if she wants to sleep in an owned bed (or on top of a rock or anywhere else she wants to sleep. I'm probably not the only one with creative solutions to such challenges or no longer has the need for a 'see you sleep' mod.
You might consider simply two versions of your mod. One with the pretty beds for those of us who don't use see you sleep and one with vanilla beds in the house to accommodate those who do use see you sleep. Please bear in mind that, as a non-modder, I'm simply guessing at what might be helpful.
Good luck!
