One joyous thing about my attitude to games is this...
If it's hard, it's not enjoyable...
That is a personal opinion...and how I feel...So any negative wossnames launched at that will be ignored...

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Basically, RL is challenge enough for me...So if something is
too challenging, then it just gets left alone...I will try a couple of times, but if it can't be done without much cursing and adrenaline-level-spiking then it gets put away...
Destiny's had a couple of moments where it got far too intense and left alone until McBoy finished it to the end of where it is at the moment and started taking the piss, so I had to do that...
But basically, most games with a difficulty slider gets put to the lowest or nearby setting as I really can't be arsed trying anymore...
So yeah, Obivion and Skyrim (and Fallout) are essentially God-Mode these days...