[size=3] i would definitley try alchemy. My character is an alchemist and it's a very good way of healing yourself, and you can make a bomb if you sell them. which is another thing. mercantiles get very far. but i think a mage is the road for you to take if you like a less violent game.
[size=5] And most of all. i admire you for coming to a forum of blood thirsty gamers and asking for help on how to have a less violent game. the beauty of oblivion is that there are so man ways to play. and non violence is just one of the many options avalible. i like your style. can't say that i don't go around the place stealing goods from castles and many other illegal things. but you've inspired me to try playing the game differently.