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[Intestinal Chaos]

I might as well add the girlfriend part, but trust me, it's pretty confusing.

There was this girl I met (the first person I met) upon moving to a new town. We instantly became friends, but you could just tell there was something more going on. I liked her very much, but being the coward I am, never told her (though I was certain she felt the same). Unfortunatly a year later I moved again, never telling her how I felt.

We stayed in contact over AIM, and so the friendship remained intact. Another year later through the urgings and mediation of a friend in common we admitted our feelings for eachother. We decided we aren't quite dating YET, but as soon as we meet again, which will be constantly over the course of several months, we will cement the relationship. In the meantime we won't be persuing anyone else and like I said... are not quite dating.

It isn't permanently a visiting relationship, I've learned I'm moving back there (completly not my decision, yet I bless it) and that's when things will be a bit more normal.

[Megil Tel-Zeke]

the update:

still single. no girlfriend nor will I have one. I am gay.

there are a few prospective guys though

and I am broke -_- going to work 20 hours this semester and save up some money.

[mplantinga]

I am curious when this thread switched from being forumite ages to personal life updates. Regardless, I just realized I voted in the poll but never posted in the thread.

I am 28 years old, and like the very brave Megil Tel-Zeke, I am gay. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over three years. He doesn't understand my obsession with TES, but that's his loss. Right now, I'm trying to save up money for a new computer so that I can actually play Oblivion when it comes out.

[Channler]

Hmmm.. well...

I'm not gay

Sorry guys I'm off the market.

Anyways, the other day I met this awesome girl.. Good god.. she blew my mind to say the least. We've been talking on the phone in-stuff, and I just found out that she goes to my school.. but I didn't know that.. I've been there for 3 years to, go figure.. Anyways.

I don't plan to ask her out, because, if I have a any fear, then that fear is the fear of commitment. Me and relationships just don't work out.. I can't figure it out, I mean, as long as the girl and I are just close friends I'm cool and I can play my pimp game , but if we make things official, I sweat all the small stuff.

Eeek, marriage is going to be horrible...

[Florodine of Hlaalu]

Alright i may sound like some idiot, however if you really like the girl, and don't feel uncomfortable around her, then you'll know if you should really go out with her. Just make sure nothing changes if you go out. Like me and chelsea (my gf) we were friends and then stayed the same once we started going out (only now we can be that much closer, sexually of course not, because not before marriage)

[Channler]

Alright i may sound like some idiot, however if you really like the girl, and don't feel uncomfortable around her, then you'll know if you should really go out with her. Just make sure nothing changes if you go out. Like me and chelsea (my gf) we were friends and then stayed the same once we started going out (only now we can be that much closer, sexually of course not, because not before marriage)

This is were my problem lies.. I am a extremely out going guy. So, while I don't really feel uncomfortable around her, I'm just not built for a relationship (maybe atm, I'm not sure). Something holds me back, but I can't find what that is.

I've upset a few girls because of my problem....