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Darkness Eternal
QUOTE(ImperialSnob @ Jan 10 2014, 05:27 PM) *

I'm fine with being friends with her though.

Wow. Just poured entire paragraphs of gold to get a one sentence response. Ah, kids these days . . . well, I suppose spamming around is better in this thread.

Back to SimplePickup forums for me!
Vital
QUOTE(Darkness Eternal @ Jan 11 2014, 03:29 AM) *

QUOTE(ImperialSnob @ Jan 10 2014, 05:27 PM) *

I'm fine with being friends with her though.

Wow. Just poured entire paragraphs of gold to get a one sentence response. Ah, kids these days . . . well, I suppose spamming around is better in this thread.

Back to SimplePickup forums for me!

Don't worry, I took notes! tongue.gif
Darkness Eternal
QUOTE(Vital @ Jan 10 2014, 05:43 PM) *

QUOTE(Darkness Eternal @ Jan 11 2014, 03:29 AM) *

QUOTE(ImperialSnob @ Jan 10 2014, 05:27 PM) *

I'm fine with being friends with her though.

Wow. Just poured entire paragraphs of gold to get a one sentence response. Ah, kids these days . . . well, I suppose spamming around is better in this thread.

Back to SimplePickup forums for me!

Don't worry, I took notes! tongue.gif

Thank you, sir! If you need any assistance concerning the subject of attraction, I'm happy to help. Whether you want to improve your social skills, find a lover or even go onto declare war on women, I'm your guy.
ImperialSnob
QUOTE(Darkness Eternal @ Jan 10 2014, 04:29 PM) *

QUOTE(ImperialSnob @ Jan 10 2014, 05:27 PM) *

I'm fine with being friends with her though.

Wow. Just poured entire paragraphs of gold to get a one sentence response. Ah, kids these days . . . well, I suppose spamming around is better in this thread.

Back to SimplePickup forums for me!


I can't change the fact she just wants to be friends,that's her decision and I respect that decision.

I'm only 13,I've got a long road ahead of me that'll(hopefully tongue.gif)include other girls.
Vital
QUOTE(Darkness Eternal @ Jan 11 2014, 03:51 AM) *

QUOTE(Vital @ Jan 10 2014, 05:43 PM) *

QUOTE(Darkness Eternal @ Jan 11 2014, 03:29 AM) *

QUOTE(ImperialSnob @ Jan 10 2014, 05:27 PM) *

I'm fine with being friends with her though.

Wow. Just poured entire paragraphs of gold to get a one sentence response. Ah, kids these days . . . well, I suppose spamming around is better in this thread.

Back to SimplePickup forums for me!

Don't worry, I took notes! tongue.gif

Thank you, sir! If you need any assistance concerning the subject of attraction, I'm happy to help. Whether you want to improve your social skills, find a lover or even go onto declare war on women, I'm your guy.

Thank you! Might not need the advice for a bit though, first I have to acquire a target tongue.gif
Darkness Eternal
QUOTE(Vital @ Jan 10 2014, 06:13 PM) *

QUOTE(Darkness Eternal @ Jan 11 2014, 03:51 AM) *

QUOTE(Vital @ Jan 10 2014, 05:43 PM) *

QUOTE(Darkness Eternal @ Jan 11 2014, 03:29 AM) *

QUOTE(ImperialSnob @ Jan 10 2014, 05:27 PM) *

I'm fine with being friends with her though.

Wow. Just poured entire paragraphs of gold to get a one sentence response. Ah, kids these days . . . well, I suppose spamming around is better in this thread.

Back to SimplePickup forums for me!

Don't worry, I took notes! tongue.gif

Thank you, sir! If you need any assistance concerning the subject of attraction, I'm happy to help. Whether you want to improve your social skills, find a lover or even go onto declare war on women, I'm your guy.

Thank you! Might not need the advice for a bit though, first I have to acquire a target tongue.gif

Targets, my good friend. Why put all your eggs in one basket? Why not invest in more than one?
Elisabeth Hollow
DE, I'm gonna respond to your wonderful post when I get home.
Rohirrim
QUOTE(ImperialSnob @ Jan 10 2014, 10:41 AM) *

I did it guys,sadly she said she didn't like me back(she put it much more kindly than that) and she said things won't be awkward between us.

We're still friends.

But the weird thing is,I'm not sad or angry about it all,I'm kinda happy that atleast I asked and got an answer.

Maybe it's because she was so nice about it and not awkward at all about it.

I feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders,and I feel more confident.

D'aaawwww Hug_emoticon.gif That's far better than how I deal with rejection.
King Of Beasts
QUOTE(ImperialSnob @ Jan 10 2014, 10:41 AM) *

I did it guys,sadly she said she didn't like me back(she put it much more kindly than that) and she said things won't be awkward between us.

We're still friends.

But the weird thing is,I'm not sad or angry about it all,I'm kinda happy that atleast I asked and got an answer.

Maybe it's because she was so nice about it and not awkward at all about it.

I feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders,and I feel more confident.


Sorry to hear it didn't work out the way you hoped it would kvleft.gif


At least you're still friends, and it's nice to hear you're glad you at least have an answer smile.gif
mirocu
QUOTE(Elisabeth Hollow @ Jan 10 2014, 12:37 PM) *

QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 01:37 AM) *

QUOTE(Kiln @ Jan 9 2014, 11:44 PM) *

Pshhht. I'll quit drinking when you stop collecting NES games. wink.gif

The difference between you and me is that my perception remains unaltered.... wink.gif

You sure? You seem to go into a haze.

"I MUST HAVE THIS GAME I DON'T CARE IF I HAVE NO JOB THIS GAME IS MINE!"


QUOTE(Callidus Thorn @ Jan 10 2014, 01:39 PM) *

Ha! laugh.gif

She's got you there 'Rocu. wink.gif

I got owned again!?? rollinglaugh.gif rollinglaugh.gif

Oh yeah, that reminds me. Got another game just now hehe.gif A game I already have but this one comes with the box and manual. Can easily sell the excess game later! laugh.gif
King Of Beasts
'Rocu, you set yourself up with that one laugh.gif
mirocu
QUOTE(King Of Beasts @ Jan 10 2014, 09:44 PM) *

'Rocu, you set yourself up with that one laugh.gif

Well, I still noticed your new title waaaaay before Kiln! rollinglaugh.gif
King Of Beasts
It surprised me he JUST noticed lol
mirocu
GAAAAAAAAMES!!! MUST HAVE GAAAAAAAAAAAMES!!!


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King Of Beasts
You've got an addiction lol
mirocu
JK biggrin.gif

Big in Japaaaaaaaaaaaan!! Are you big in Japaaaan??
King Of Beasts
No, because japan scares me lol
mirocu
One night in Bangkok makes the hard man humble.... biggrin.gif
King Of Beasts
QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 04:04 PM) *

One night in Bangkok makes the hard man humble.... biggrin.gif


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Okay, no dirty jokes lol
mirocu
It´s a song, dude! panic.gif

And a good one at that smile.gif
King Of Beasts
Never heard the song lol

Excuse my dirty mind laugh.gif
mirocu
QUOTE(King Of Beasts @ Jan 10 2014, 10:09 PM) *

Never heard the song lol

Excuse my dirty mind laugh.gif

Murray Head - One night in Bangkok
Callidus Thorn
QUOTE(King Of Beasts @ Jan 10 2014, 08:58 PM) *

You've got an addiction lol


Is there anyone here who doesn't?
King Of Beasts
Not that I've heard of lol
mirocu
-Hi, everyone. My name is mirocu and I have a game buying addiction.

-HI, MIROCU.


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Callidus Thorn
QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 09:18 PM) *

-Hi, everyone. My name is mirocu and I have a game buying addiction.

-HI, MIROCU.


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Heh, you forgot your Lothran addiction, or if you'd prefer your "one character" addiction biggrin.gif
mirocu
QUOTE(Callidus Thorn @ Jan 10 2014, 10:19 PM) *

Heh, you forgot your Lothran addiction, or if you'd prefer your "one character" addiction biggrin.gif

That´s an addiction I´m proud to share with Acadian, tmar, Decrepit and many others. Sadly not Phon anymore, though wink.gif
Callidus Thorn
QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 09:22 PM) *

QUOTE(Callidus Thorn @ Jan 10 2014, 10:19 PM) *

Heh, you forgot your Lothran addiction, or if you'd prefer your "one character" addiction biggrin.gif

That´s an addiction I´m proud to share with Acadian, tmar, Decrepit and many others. Sadly not Phon anymore, though wink.gif


Maybe I'll start a support group for you guys, get you all starting new characters evillol.gif

Nah, that'd never work.
mirocu
Or.... maybe we should get a support group for you guys! ohmy.gif ohmy.gif

Ever thought of that!?? panic.gif
Callidus Thorn
QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 09:30 PM) *

Or.... maybe we should get a support group for you guys! ohmy.gif ohmy.gif

Ever thought of that!?? panic.gif


Heh, getting me stuck on a single character would be an achievement, considering the average lifespans of my characters.

I'm just hoping Telindil proves to be my most unkillable character yet. Otherwise it'll ruin my fanfiction.

I'm beginning to suspect that he might be...
ghastley
QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 04:22 PM) *

QUOTE(Callidus Thorn @ Jan 10 2014, 10:19 PM) *

Heh, you forgot your Lothran addiction, or if you'd prefer your "one character" addiction biggrin.gif

That´s an addiction I´m proud to share with Acadian, tmar, Decrepit and many others. Sadly not Phon anymore, though wink.gif

You can't count tmar, Mooch has been played as a character.
mirocu
QUOTE(ghastley @ Jan 10 2014, 10:34 PM) *

QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 04:22 PM) *

QUOTE(Callidus Thorn @ Jan 10 2014, 10:19 PM) *

Heh, you forgot your Lothran addiction, or if you'd prefer your "one character" addiction biggrin.gif

That´s an addiction I´m proud to share with Acadian, tmar, Decrepit and many others. Sadly not Phon anymore, though wink.gif

You can't count tmar, Mooch has been played as a character.

Darn it! tongue.gif

I was just counting Baa! laugh.gif
Vital
QUOTE(Callidus Thorn @ Jan 11 2014, 08:34 AM) *

QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 09:30 PM) *

Or.... maybe we should get a support group for you guys! ohmy.gif ohmy.gif

Ever thought of that!?? panic.gif


Heh, getting me stuck on a single character would be an achievement, considering the average lifespans of my characters.

I'm just hoping Telindil proves to be my most unkillable character yet. Otherwise it'll ruin my fanfiction.

I'm beginning to suspect that he might be...

In oblivion I had about 20 characters before I even started playing Did...

mirocu
QUOTE(Vital @ Jan 10 2014, 10:46 PM) *

In oblivion I had about 20 characters before I even started playing Did...

Agent O-range knows I like nano-augmentation! mad.gif
Callidus Thorn
QUOTE(Vital @ Jan 10 2014, 09:46 PM) *

QUOTE(Callidus Thorn @ Jan 11 2014, 08:34 AM) *

QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 09:30 PM) *

Or.... maybe we should get a support group for you guys! ohmy.gif ohmy.gif

Ever thought of that!?? panic.gif


Heh, getting me stuck on a single character would be an achievement, considering the average lifespans of my characters.

I'm just hoping Telindil proves to be my most unkillable character yet. Otherwise it'll ruin my fanfiction.

I'm beginning to suspect that he might be...

In oblivion I had about 20 characters before I even started playing Did...


I ran through dozens of character in Oblivion, mostly minor variations of each other, before playing DiD. And I only started that because of a different game. Playing DiD has not improved their lifespan, though at least I've got a better reason when I start a new character now.


*Sees Mirocu's post*

*Sighs*

Here we go again...
mirocu
QUOTE(Callidus Thorn @ Jan 10 2014, 10:48 PM) *

*Sees Mirocu's post*

*Sighs*

Here we go again...

My instructions are to amuse visitors, with information about information about information about information biggrin.gif
Callidus Thorn
I can see why it's called the Malkavian Mod...
mirocu
Sorry rollinglaugh.gif

I just love watching that walkthrough tongue.gif
Vital
QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 11 2014, 08:48 AM) *

QUOTE(Vital @ Jan 10 2014, 10:46 PM) *

In oblivion I had about 20 characters before I even started playing Did...

Agent O-range knows I like nano-augmentation! mad.gif

Take my knife
mirocu
QUOTE(Vital @ Jan 10 2014, 10:56 PM) *

Take my knife

You´ve got to show me something my eyes have never beheld before! biggrin.gif
Callidus Thorn
*Steps out of thread*
mirocu
I´ll take a vial of people biggrin.gif




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King Of Beasts
I need to stop lurking around creepy websites lol
Elisabeth Hollow
Just wanted to touch up on some thingies biggrin.gif

I feel like you've made some very good points, and hope that the response you get from me is more satisfactory than ImpSnob's XD




[quote]The following questions is relating to your relationship prior to telling her that you like her.

1. Did you talk to her all the time?

2. Did you flirt with her? Touch her(not in any inappropriate way)to where you established a natural connection?

3. Did you, in any shape or form, decide to play it safe and not engage in anything that goes beyond the male-female friendship? This is important.[/quote]

This is very important. Most guys go into a relationship with a girl (Which you touch up on later) thinking "If I'm friendly with her, she'll like me!"

No.

No no no. If you're friendly with us, we'll be friends with you.



[quote]
I will say a few things and it may sting or not, but its a lesson I wished I learned before I decided to shape up.

There are many factors to why you’re put in this situation, but the most common reason is that maybe you didn’t move fast enough when you first saw her: I'm not saying to grab her and demand that she follow you to the bedroom.

Telling her your intent when you first interact can determine whether you’re going to be a potential “friend” or "romantic” interest. An example of this can be as simple as telling her that she is cute, sexy, etc. She looks good in some clothes. Etc.[/quote]
THIS.

I had a guy friend who, for two years, liked me. he had a crush on me, and I had no idea. Not for sheer lack of a romantic radar, mind you, but because he never said anything.

Most people won't be like "Oh, this guy is nice, he likes me!"

Most, lol.

When I left highschool, I had guys and girls tell me they liked me for the entirety of my stint at the school. People who never flirted, who said "I"m here if you need a friend," or Just plain never talked to me.

[quote]
Also, another big reason you could be in this hell of a zone is because of societies’ brainwashed theory that you have to be “friends first” before you can start anything with the girl. This mentality is stupid and I must say, retarded.[/quote]
I feel like when someone says "Let's be friends first," they're really saying "I'm putting off telling you I don't like you."

Romantic interest CAN pop up after time, and sometimes it's not discovered until later. However, it's not a thing that can happen often.

[quote]
There are a bunch of apes out there who think you must start the relationship before the relationship. As in, you have to first before becoming lovers. We have to understand that most girls hate this mentality because it does three of the following which may apply:

1. Girls don’t like guys who don’t know what they want. They like guys who are assertive, who lead, who are strong-willed. So, confessing to her is essentially showing that you’re flip-flopper. And, being indecisive isn’t an attractive trait.[/quote]
It really isn't. I hate indecisiveness.

[quote]
2. She can see it as a betrayal of friendship when a guy finally confesses to a girl friend that he “likes her.” Do you know how many times it's been said “You just wanted to be my friend so you could get into my pants?” She trusted you, she confided in you, she invested so much of her time to help you as a friend, and your confession means she wasted portions of her life she’ll never be able to take back. Why? because you’re essentially telling her that you’re a liar and a scammer. Ouch. [/quote
This. This whole paragraph is what I've been trying to instill into my guy friends. Women are NOT machines that you put "Nice" token s into and expect a relationship or sex to pop out. We do not owe you anything for being nice. You do not deserve an award for being a good friend unless the girl is absolutely unbearable and you're making your own life miserable to save another human being from ever having to put up with her, and if that's the case, I commend you, sir.

There is a guy at work who liked me. he was sweet, nice, gave me hugs every day, even comforted me shortly when I was upset. As soon as it came up that he liked me, and I didn't like him back, it all stopped. He won't even speak to me except in grunts. I can imagine he's disappointed I don't share the same feelings, but to put all of that effort into making me think he was genuinely someone I could consider a friend, I feel very hurt, and upset, and betrayed. Like all he wanted from me was sex. Like I'm nothing more than something for him to use to get off.

Luckily the friendship didn't last too long, just a few months.


[quote]
3. You’re perceived as weak because you don’t have the confidence to pick up other girls. She’ll see your confession, that you like her, as a last desperation of hope that you want a girl in your life. And, as points #1 and #2 tell you, girls don’t like desperate and needy guys.[/quote]
Ehhhhh.... Not sure how to elaborate on this, but I wouldn't perceive it as absolute fact. I for one don't think (Unless I'm very depressed at the moment) that any friend going after me is desperate. Unless I've seen them pursue several others and can't get anyone.


[quote]
4. She has absolutely no attraction to you whatsoever and does consider you as a friend, and nothing more due to the lack of seduction/attraction and all that relates to these qualities.[/quote]
It happens. Sometimes we just don't like you like that. Shocking revelation, hmm?

[quote]
How to Turn a Friend into a Lover! A Darkness Eternal Special!

You have tell her what you want. However, it comes with a few things in mind:

1. You have to show her portions of you she hasn’t seen before. No, I'm not saying exposing yourself (just yet). I’m talking about showing the personality and life changes you’ve made recently. An example would be showing her that you’re more confident and assertive (after the conversation you two had). Or, a new wardrobe; just make sure to show her something you haven’t shown, of yourself, to her yet.

Right now the current traits she sees in you equates as friend traits. Showing her something different can make her believe that these new traits are lover traits. Again, this stems from learning a new skill (like guitar) to showing her your long lost brother that you found a few days ago.

SHOW HER SOMETHING DIFFERENT ABOUT YOURSELF.[/quote]
This is actually a pretty effective idea. Showing someone something new that isn't really common knowledge makes the relationship more intimate, and is a pretty nice way of setting the groundwork for becoming more than buds.

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2. You have to come into the mindset that she’s either a Lover or Nothing More. I repeat, LOVER or NOTHING MORE. Listen, you confessed you liked her because you just don’t want to be her friend, so if she rejects you, why continue to be her friend? You’ll just be lying to her and yourself that you’re okay with the current terms of your relationship. However, if you do become lovers and it doesn’t work out, there is a greater chance that you can stay ‘just friends.’

This is one of the hardest points to internalize. Many men don’t have the stones to walk away from the friendship after their girl friend rejects their proposal to become something more. This option can be scary but your time on earth is limited – you have to take the chance to walk away if she says no.[/quote]
Now hang on, doesn't this go into the "You only wanted me to get into my pants!" paragraph?

It's true, though. setting the tone at the beginning is very important. sometimes it's best to cut your losses and move on-this isn't Hollywood. You don't get the girl just because you try hard. You get the girl because she wants you too.

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3. Once you have points #1 and #2 engrained in your system, you have to now find the time to tell her how you feel. You don’t have to dress up in a bow tie or go on some special date (this isn’t a friggin' reality show). All you have to do is find time alone where you can tell or show her your intent.

Examples:

“I don’t want to be your friend because I want something more. Why? Cause I think you’re sexy, I like the way you talk about monkeys, I like how you bite your toenails… I want to take you out on a real date where there is a chance we’ll have something more.'

Basically, you have to make an emphasis on the flirtatious part. Isn’t this is why you wanted to be more than just friends? You already know her, you already like her, so it’s now about developing the flirtatious and the "S" word(goodness, the mods laws on this forum is killing me) side of things. I can’t hold your hand and place it on her face, then grab your lips with her lips and smash them together… I’m not Master of the Universe, I can’t move you like a puppet.[/quote]
Set the bar, basically. Set the tone for the relationship.
Rohirrim
QUOTE(Callidus Thorn @ Jan 10 2014, 04:34 PM) *

QUOTE(mirocu @ Jan 10 2014, 09:30 PM) *

Or.... maybe we should get a support group for you guys! ohmy.gif ohmy.gif

Ever thought of that!?? panic.gif


Heh, getting me stuck on a single character would be an achievement, considering the average lifespans of my characters.

I'm just hoping Telindil proves to be my most unkillable character yet. Otherwise it'll ruin my fanfiction.

I'm beginning to suspect that he might be...

I'm going to start a support group for those who live in the past...
Elisabeth Hollow
Why didn't my quotes work?!?!
King Coin
QUOTE(Elisabeth Hollow @ Jan 10 2014, 11:43 PM) *

Why didn't my quotes work?!?!

You didn't close a tag.

that you’re a liar and a scammer. Ouch. [/quote

And for whatever reason if there is above a certain number of quotes, it just doesn't work.
Kiln
QUOTE(ImperialSnob @ Jan 10 2014, 03:41 PM) *

I did it guys,sadly she said she didn't like me back(she put it much more kindly than that) and she said things won't be awkward between us.

We're still friends.

But the weird thing is,I'm not sad or angry about it all,I'm kinda happy that atleast I asked and got an answer.

Maybe it's because she was so nice about it and not awkward at all about it.

I feel a weight has been lifted off my shoulders,and I feel more confident.

Sorry. I couldn't have contributed anything useful anyways on that front, I'm a little rusty.

Actual footage of Kiln in an alternate reality where he's single again:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H3yP2xZ_e5Y
Elisabeth Hollow
Meh. I'll edit it to where it's bolded later.
King Coin
Well, you could see if closing the quote tag works, but I was pointing out that it might not.
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