Speaking of dashing and debonair, where the heck is Mustard? He has dropped off the face of Nirn, and that's not like him.
@ Blackie - Independent people are attracted to people who are independent, not someone who might try to clip their wings.
The ones that are most attractive to you are strong in themselves, don't need another person to feel complete. What you admire most about them and/or the thing you have most in common with them is the very thing that makes them not available.
The confident independence you exude is what attracts a more dependent type person to you, makes you desirable as a mate that they (see) would be capable of handling anything thrown at them - that is an attractive quality.
(superseding your 20 extra pounds of chiseled marble Greek godliness, and despite the cloud of smoke surrounding you)